ADHD Therapy
ADHD Therapy
  • Home
  • About me
  • Fee schedule
  • Book Now
  • Contact Me
  • EMDR and Somatic Therapy
  • Resources
  • Invite me to speak
  • Gender diverse teens
  • More
    • Home
    • About me
    • Fee schedule
    • Book Now
    • Contact Me
    • EMDR and Somatic Therapy
    • Resources
    • Invite me to speak
    • Gender diverse teens
  • Sign In
  • Create Account

  • Bookings
  • My Account
  • Signed in as:

  • filler@godaddy.com


  • Bookings
  • My Account
  • Sign out


Signed in as:

filler@godaddy.com

  • Home
  • About me
  • Fee schedule
  • Book Now
  • Contact Me
  • EMDR and Somatic Therapy
  • Resources
  • Invite me to speak
  • Gender diverse teens

Account


  • Bookings
  • My Account
  • Sign out


  • Sign In
  • Bookings
  • My Account

Unlock Your Potential with ADHD Therapy - resources

See ADHD as a trait and not a disorder

 The perspective that ADHD can be seen as a trait rather than just a disorder stems from various viewpoints about neurodiversity and how we understand different cognitive styles. Here are some reasons why some people view ADHD this way:

  1. Neurodiversity Perspective: This viewpoint emphasizes that variations in brain function, including traits associated with ADHD, are part of human diversity. Instead of viewing ADHD solely as a disorder, it recognizes that these traits can have both strengths and challenges.
  2. Strengths and Talents: Many individuals with ADHD exhibit strengths, such as creativity, high energy, and the ability to think outside the box. These traits can be advantageous in certain contexts, especially in dynamic or fast-paced environments.
  3. Contextual Factors: ADHD traits can be more or less functional depending on the environment. In settings that provide flexibility and support, individuals with ADHD may thrive, suggesting that their traits can be assets rather than deficits.
  4. Cultural Differences: Different cultures and societies value various traits. What is seen as problematic in one context might be celebrated in another, leading to the idea that ADHD traits can be advantageous in certain environments.
  5. Personal Experience: Many individuals with ADHD describe their experiences as part of their identity. They may feel that labeling it strictly as a disorder doesn’t capture the full picture of their strengths and challenges.
  6. Adaptive Strategies: People with ADHD often develop unique coping mechanisms and strategies to navigate their lives, which can lead to personal growth and resilience.

While recognizing ADHD as a trait can be empowering, it's important to balance this view with an understanding of the challenges that come with it. Effective support and strategies are crucial for helping individuals harness their strengths while managing difficulties.

Parenting your ADHD Teen

 Parenting teens can be challenging but also rewarding. Here are some key pieces of advice:

  1. Open Communication: Foster an environment where your teen feels comfortable talking to you about anything. Listen actively and validate their feelings, even if you don’t agree.
  2. Set Boundaries: Establish clear expectations and rules, but be flexible and willing to discuss them. Consistency helps teens feel secure.
  3. Encourage Independence: Allow them to make choices and face the consequences. This helps build their confidence and decision-making skills.
  4. Model Behavior: Be a role model for the values you want to instill. Show them how to handle stress, resolve conflicts, and communicate effectively.
  5. Stay Involved: Show interest in their activities, friends, and interests. Attend events and engage in their hobbies to strengthen your bond.
  6. Respect Their Privacy: While it's important to stay involved, give them space to develop their own identity. Trust is crucial.
  7. Be Supportive: Encourage their passions and aspirations. Celebrate their achievements and help them navigate setbacks.
  8. Teach Life Skills: Equip them with practical skills, like budgeting, cooking, and time management, to prepare them for adulthood.
  9. Discuss Values and Morals: Have conversations about ethics, relationships, and social issues. This helps them form their own beliefs.
  10. Practice Self-Care: Taking care of your own mental and emotional health is essential. It sets a positive example and helps you be a better parent.

Remember, every teen is unique, so stay attuned to their individual needs and adapt your approach accordingly!

Study Tips for ADHDers

 Students with ADHD can benefit from tailored study strategies that align with their strengths and challenges. Here are some effective study skills:

  1. Structured Environment: Create a dedicated, organized study space free from distractions. Use tools like organizers or study apps to keep materials in order.
  2. Clear Routine: Establish a consistent study schedule. Predictable routines can help improve focus and reduce anxiety about deadlines.
  3. Break Tasks into Steps: Divide larger assignments into smaller, manageable tasks. This makes projects feel less overwhelming and provides a sense of accomplishment as each step is completed.
  4. Use Timers: Implement the Pomodoro Technique—study for 25 minutes, then take a 5-minute break. This helps maintain focus and provides regular intervals for rest.
  5. Visual Aids: Utilize diagrams, charts, and color-coding to help reinforce learning and memory retention. Visual tools can make information more accessible.
  6. Multisensory Learning: Engage multiple senses by using videos, hands-on activities, or audio materials. This can enhance understanding and retention of information.
  7. Active Participation: Encourage involvement in discussions, study groups, or teaching concepts to others. Active engagement can help reinforce learning.
  8. Use Technology: Leverage apps and tools designed to support focus, organization, and task management, such as digital calendars or reminder apps.
  9. Mindfulness and Breaks: Incorporate mindfulness techniques or short physical activity breaks to help reset focus and manage stress.
  10. Positive Reinforcement: Celebrate achievements, no matter how small. Positive reinforcement can motivate and build confidence.
  11. Checklists: Create checklists for assignments and study goals to provide a visual representation of progress and keep tasks organized.
  12. Limit Distractions: Identify specific distractions and find ways to minimize them, such as using noise-canceling headphones or turning off notifications.

Encourage students to experiment with different techniques to find what works best for them, as individual preferences can vary widely!

Dopamine Menu

Appetizer

Jumping Jacks / Quick Meditation / Listen to Music / Dance   / Drink Coffee or Tea / Cuddle a pet / Accomplish a small chore / Stretch / Get   some sun / Draw / Make a plan / Use Vibration Massage / Watch a Funny Video /  Splash Cold Water on Your Face / Bounce on your Toes / Use Red Light Therapy / Use Shakti Mat

 

Entree

Go for a Walk / Get some Exercise / Cook a Meal / Watch a   Movie / Read a Book / Take a Shower /  Re-organize something in your place / Call a Friend / Check Something off your To-do List / Reach out to a Body-Double to get a Chore Done / Have a Nap

 

Sides

Play with a Fidget Toy/ Make something / Smell Something   Nice / Eat something Spicy or Citrusy / Text Someone you Love 

 

Dessert

Eat Something Sweet / Play a Video Game / Scroll Social   Media / Binge-watch TV / Snack 

 

Specials

Book a Vacation / Go to a Concert / See a Comedy Show / Start a New Hobby / Do a Random Act of Kindness / Move / Redecorate / Treat Yourself to a Spa Treatment / Get a Haircut

 

Why adhders have more Trouble managing emotions

 People with ADHD often experience challenges in managing emotions due to several interconnected factors:

  1. Executive Functioning Deficits: ADHD affects executive functions, which include emotional regulation. This can make it harder for individuals to plan, prioritize, and control their responses to emotional situations.
  2. Impulsivity: Many people with ADHD struggle with impulsivity, which can lead to quick, emotional reactions without fully processing the situation. This can result in heightened emotional responses.
  3. Heightened Sensitivity: Some individuals with ADHD may be more sensitive to emotional stimuli, leading to stronger feelings of frustration, sadness, or anxiety.
  4. Difficulty with Social Cues: Challenges in interpreting social cues can lead to misunderstandings and increased emotional distress in social situations.
  5. Anxiety and Mood Disorders: ADHD often coexists with anxiety and mood disorders, which can exacerbate emotional regulation difficulties.
  6. Stress and Overwhelm: The challenges of daily life, like managing time and responsibilities, can lead to increased stress. When overwhelmed, emotional regulation can become even more difficult.
  7. Neurobiological Factors: ADHD is linked to differences in brain chemistry and structure, particularly in areas responsible for emotion and impulse control, like the prefrontal cortex.

Understanding these factors can help in developing strategies for emotional regulation, such as mindfulness practices, therapy, and coping skills tailored to individual needs.

How to help support emotional regulation

 Managing emotions effectively is a valuable skill that can improve overall well-being. Here are some strategies to help you manage your emotions:

  1. Identify Triggers: Recognize what situations, people, or events trigger strong emotions. Keeping a journal can help you track patterns and understand your emotional responses better.
  2. Practice Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or yoga. These practices can help you stay present and reduce emotional reactivity.
  3. Use Relaxation Techniques: Incorporate techniques like progressive muscle relaxation, visualization, or listening to calming music to help manage stress and anxiety.
  4. Develop Emotional Awareness: Take time to understand your emotions. Labeling your feelings can create distance and make them easier to manage.
  5. Pause and Reflect: When you feel a strong emotion, pause before reacting. Take a few deep breaths and give yourself time to consider your response.
  6. Communicate Effectively: Express your feelings openly and assertively, using "I" statements (e.g., "I feel overwhelmed when..."). This helps others understand your perspective without putting them on the defensive.
  7. Engage in Physical Activity: Regular exercise can boost mood and reduce stress. Even a short walk can help clear your mind and improve emotional regulation.
  8. Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your feelings. Sharing your experiences can provide relief and new perspectives.
  9. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself when experiencing difficult emotions. Remind yourself that it's okay to feel what you're feeling.
  10. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no or step back from situations that overwhelm you. Protecting your emotional space is important for well-being.
  11. Develop Coping Strategies: Identify activities that help you cope with emotions, such as journaling, drawing, or engaging in hobbies.
  12. Limit Exposure to Stressors: If certain environments or situations consistently cause stress, try to minimize your exposure to them when possible.

Remember that managing emotions is a skill that takes time and practice to develop. Be patient with yourself as you work on these strategies!

Why exercise is so helpful for mental health

 Exercise is crucial for mental health for several reasons:

  1. Endorphin Release: Physical activity stimulates the production of endorphins, which are chemicals in the brain that act as natural painkillers and mood elevators.
  2. Stress Reduction: Exercise helps reduce levels of stress hormones, such as cortisol, and promotes relaxation. This can lead to a decrease in anxiety and tension.
  3. Improved Sleep: Regular physical activity can help regulate sleep patterns, leading to better quality sleep, which is vital for mental health.
  4. Increased Confidence: Achieving fitness goals, no matter how small, can boost self-esteem and confidence.
  5. Social Interaction: Group activities and sports can provide social support and a sense of community, reducing feelings of isolation.
  6. Mindfulness: Engaging in physical activity can promote mindfulness, helping individuals focus on the present moment and reduce negative thoughts.
  7. Neurotransmitter Regulation: Exercise increases the availability of neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, which play key roles in mood regulation.


Incorporating regular exercise into your routine can be a powerful way to enhance overall mental well-being.

Somatic Practices for Stress Reduction

This somatic practice is for stress and trauma release to help you work with personal history or responses to collective events happening in our world. This practice is for grounding to help open the rivers of energy in your body helping you come back to a sense of ease in your body and flow of your energy.  

Vagus Nerve Exercises for Anxiety

Rewire your brain from anxiety with just 20 minutes per day: 

21 Min Full-Body Relaxation

This is a full body relaxation routine. This will help calm your nervous system and is a great relief for insomnia. This is the first video from the Workout Witch's Release Stress & Trauma Online Course.  

Copyright © 2025 ADHD Therapy - All Rights Reserved.

Powered by